On Being Alone

I'm sure most of you have heard about Kelsey Smith, the 18 yr old who was abducted outside a store in Kansas and killed. Another sad story about a young life, full of promise, cut short. I hope you will talk to your kids about the dangers like this and what to do. I know it's easier to think about it than to put it into action, but going over what to do could save a life.

I've always said if anyone ever got in the car with me, they were going on a wild ride! I know nothing good is going to happen so they're the one who should be scared! I would be one scary driver! Buckle up mr. criminal! I've never done a 360 in an intersection but it's time to try it!

Here ae some suggestions on what to do. I hope you never have to use them!


1 Tip from Tae Kwon Do :

The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do!

2. Learned this from a tourist guide in New Orleans. If a robber asks for your wallet or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM! Toss itaway from you...chances are that he is more interested in your wallet/purse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car, kick out the back tail loghts and stick your arm out the hole and start waring like crazy! The driver won't see you, but everyone else will. This has saved lives!

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping, eating, working, etc, and just sit--doind their checkbook or making a list, etc. DON'T DO THIS! I will be watching you and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side, put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU GET INTO YOUR CAR, LOCK THE DOORS AND LEAVE!

a. If someone is in the car with a gun to your head, DO NOT DRIVE OFF, repeat, DO NOT DRIVE OFF! Instead, gun the engine and speed into anything, wrecking the car. Your air bag will save you. If the person is in the back seat they will get the worst of it. As soon as the car crashes, bail out and run! It is better than having them find your body in a remote location or never finding your body.

5 A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot or a parking lot:
A.) Be aware: look around you.
look into your car, at the passenger side floor , and in the back
seat

B..) If you are parked next to a big van,
enter your car from the passenger door .
Most serial killers attack their victimsby pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.

C..) Look at the car parked on the driver's side of your vehicle,
and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out.
IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)

6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot. This is especially true at NIGHT!)

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control,
ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN, Preferably in a zig -zag pattern!

8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP
It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked "for help" into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.

9. Another Safety Point: Someone just told me that her friend heard a crying baby on her porch the night before last, and she called the police because it was late and she thought it was weird. The police told her "Whatever you do, DO NOT open the door." The lady then said that it sounded like the baby had crawled near a window, and she was worried that it would crawl to the street and get run over. The policeman said, "We already have a unit on the way, whatever you do, DO NOT open the door." He told her that they think a serial killer has a baby's cry recorded and uses it to coax women out of their homes thinking that someone dropped off a baby He said they have not verified it, but have had several calls by women saying that they hear baby's cries outside their doors when they're home alone at night.